Horoscopes - mine and his

This is a super long post because I am commenting on some horoscope stuff that was forwarded to me. Taurus is me, and Aries is him. You'll know which were part of the mail and which are my own input. Happy reading!


T a u r u s
April 20 - May 20

TAURUS WOMAN
A slim moderately tall woman. Taurus woman is funny and a jolly person. Square facial bone structure, high cheek bone. Her round big eyes sparkle with wit and curiosity. You will not see many round faces Taurus women, and mainly she will have a strong jaw line.
[I don’t know about my own facial features. Guess you’ll just have to see my photos to determine how true it is.]

She is a constantly change person. If she up sets, she will not show it and will keep it to herself for a long time, and will remember them so well. If she gets really mad at you, you will suddenly become a totally and completely stranger to her.
[Yes. If I get mad, I will be furious. You don’t want to see me that way. Ever. But it’ll take a lot to make me so angry. Don’t worry.]

She is a patient person, but always need new excitement. She hates long talk meeting, long and endless conversation. She can be in love with you today, and one day she could act as if she has never loved you before. She has patient with what she wants to do and will never give up until she gets there. She will be very persistent in what she is doing till she has reasons for stopping her project, then she will quit.
[Long talks.. maybe that is why I don’t like talking on the phone? I think the only person who I am able to speak to hours on end is YL.
Yup. If I wanna do something, I’ll see it through to the end – unless given a damn good reason not to. One day in love with you, the next day not? Also rather true. And once it becomes "not", it’ll be extra hard to reverse.]

Money for Taurus woman is not the most important factor in life. She thinks of money as an instrument for assuring of a good living. She has more satisfaction in achieving her goals more than satisfaction in fine cloths and luxuries. If you like a woman who always thinks of love and romance, then you are dating the wrong girl. You can not tell her to stay at home, she likes to work and preferred not work at home.
[That’s absolutely right! I love to have money – but only to improve my quality of life. I want to be able to enjoy my life, and that includes the people around me. I’m willing to pay to have a good time. If people around me are having the same, depending on my mood, I may just be generous enough to foot their bill too.
Love and romance.. well.. no gal can say no to those. Much as I’m practical, a little bit is good. Just once in a while will do. I do not mind staying at home, but I must have lots to do. Loads of TV, some housework, games, blah blah. Heeheehee…]

She loves animals and likes to surround by animals. Love is in her head, but Freedom is in her soul. She has her own idea about love and afraid to show her true feeling for fear of rejection. She is not the type to talk about love, but she sure has a strange way to show it. She is not good in showing when she is in love, but if she loves you she will be honest to you than any other women.
[I luuurrve animals.
I don’t know about other women so no comparisons there. I think… in it’s odd way, this paragraph is hard to understand, but maybe that’s the only way to describe me and love. Difficult and confusing. Hahaha!]

She will be honest to her love one, but at the same time seems distant. You will have a good relationship with her, if you allow her freedom. Do not force her to be with you in a poker game which she hates, but let she goes out swinging with her friends if she wants to. She will be different than other girls, and she thinks different is one of her unique quality. She is a public figure but belongs to no one. She will not stay with you, if she thinks you are not sincere. She likes you to have personality, but better not to compete with her. Love her, but not too much for she afraid it will limiting her freedom.
[Correct to say that I will not stay with someone whom I do not think is sincere. My freedom is important so limiting it will affect me – but then who wouldn’t be affected?! Honest to her love one? Definitely. Loyalty and faithfulness are the 2 of some of the most important things in a relationship. I will not compromise that as long as I am officially attached.]

She always stand out of the crowd for something she dares to do. You could see her dress like a poor farmer dinning in the fancy restaurant, or dress like a nun in an a cocktail dress party. If you are a politician who are looking for a wife, she will make a good one because she is cleverly smart and she could get along socially with any type of crowds.
[Erm. Me? Stand out in crowds? More like I’ll get lost in them and never found. I like to dress up, and m y sense of style can be a little more loud than what I’m more suitable for, but heck. I dress as I please. Me get along in any type of crowd? If you consider standing around smiling to everyone, making eye contact but never talking as "get along socially", then yes, maybe I am. I’ll never be the life of a party, but I do enjoy going to them anyway. I like observing people. Did I mention I’m an oddball?]

She is not a jealous type because she has to know you thoroughly before accepting you in her life. She has more curiosity in life than wondering if right now you are flirting with someone else. If you keep a distant from her, or go away for a few days, she will miss you more. Even when she is dating you, she also able to fond of someone else, if you do not have something she is looking for. She will never disappoint you or hide behind your back to make you loose face, but she is the type who just going to tell you to your face that " We're better off breaking up".
[Okay. This USED to be true until my insecurities surfaced this year (as you can tell from my escalating posts. I’m starting to wonder if it is because my mind has had the time and space to run free. Previously I was always preoccupied with loads of stuff I couldn’t be bothered to think if he would be flirting with someone else. I’d be working, studying, managing the band, and doing other stuff as well.
Keep distant from me and I’ll miss you more? Yeah. I guess. Works for most people.
Yup. I’ll never disappoint you behind your back. If you do not have what I’m looking for – in this case for me, if he cannot show me that he does intend to have a future with me – then yes, I will say it to your face and disappear.]

She always remember her first love. Taurus woman holds the best record for divorce for she does not care about how people think of her, but every things should be done for "Happiness".
[My first love.. hmm.. Is what I’m having my first love? I do not ever recall being in anything like this before.
I do care about what others think, to a certain extent, but more importantly, as much as I do things that make me happy, I care about how what I do will affect the people around me.]

She has lots of friends and sure of herself, so you will hardly see she delays any of her thoughts before her action. If she think of something, she will go ahead and does it. She has many men wanting her for her constant changes is the challenge. She can be cute and funny, but suddenly cool and tough. She has her own style of dressing up, so you could see her dress like an old mate today, and tomorrow she may dress like she comes from Mars. She will have that interesting hair, dress and a look unique from anyone else.
[Lots of friends? I’m trying I’m trying. Friendster and wholives are great platforms. Need to use them more. I’m not a very secure person, but I am sure of my decisions. For example, I have said that after June I’ll be picking new things up – so I will. I’ll just go ahead and dive into whatever I choose.
Many men wanting me? WHERE ARE YOU MEN?!?!?!
Cute and funny? By that does it mean ugly and odd? If yes, that’s me. Cool and tough is somewhere in me too. Just need to bring it out.
Again, my dressing. Up to yourselves to comment. But no, I do not have interesting hair.]

She likes to learn about your dreams and your thought. She has fun teasing you and making jokes. If she did something wrong, she won't hide it from you, but do not ask when she is not in the mood to talk about it. She hates to owe people money and take promise seriously. If you promise to pay her back, you'd better paid up.
[I want to know what people think, and yes I may tease but it’s nothing personal. It’s not like my dreams and thoughts are not hilarious either.
I do not mind people asking me questions. I welcome them. That’s because I don’t know much of what to say, so if prompted, it makes me more at ease.
Yup. If you say you are going to pay me back, you damn well better do so.]

If you want to make it with Taurus woman, then do not be jealous or possessive, do not be narrow minded, do not criticize about nonsense or small and insignificant matters. Try to likes her friends and let she has her privacy, then she can be very sweet to you.
[Very true. Don’t make noise about small matters. I’ll just brush them off as if I have bigger things to worry about, which I probably do. And yes, I can be very sweet since seeing the people around me happy is something I value – but only if you’re worth it. Win me over and you’d have me for a lifetime. Lose me, and I’ll never come back.]


A r i e s
March 21-April 19

Aries Man
He always let other people walk in front of him, but he will get there first. He is a very careful guy and small obstacles won't make him fall easily even he thinks life is a very serious matter. He is as romantic as any other Zodiac. He could look gentle, but inside he is as strong as steel.
Once he determine to do something, he is serious about doing it well. He will keep any pressure or insult deep down inside without showing emotion.
You will never see his emotion of burden or disappointment and always wonder what he thinks or feels. He will well kept his feeling.
[Romantic? Nah. That’s not Dearie. But sweet in his own little subtle actions, yes.
His feelings are all very very very well kept. He never looks serious doing anything and looks too happy-go-lucky to seem to feel any emotions.]

You will never see a guy in this Zodiac involving in other people business. He always concern with his own business. Sometimes he can be talkative, but he will never give anyone advice if he has not been asked. If you ask for advice, he will certainly give you one. He respects elderly and senior, so you will see he is the type who visit his parents steadily or often.
[Yup, he can’t care much about others business. Advice? To his good buddies who ask I suppose. And yes, respectful to elderly. But most people are anyway.]

He is a slightly shy but also a stubborn person. He will find many ways to make you happy when you are with him, till you realize he is the important person for you. Once he is in the "Power Position", he will use his power gently. He is a good leader and "Gentleness" is one of his effective method for exploiting his power. It is although he is borne to be a leader. He never hide his ambition, and he is a workaholic. he will not take any position that he has no control. He will work very hard to reach his goal and satisfaction.
[I don’t know about this “control” thingy mentioned here. But yes, he’ll work hard to reach his goal – a Yamaha R6’08 – and he is very responsible towards his work. He works hard, but smart too. Yes he has made me very happy and I do realise he’s an important person to me, so maybe that’s why he is now taking the backseat. Hmm…]

Compliment from his boss or superior are never enough for him, he want his deserved reward. His deep insecurity make him reach and collecting valuable things, and this you may think he is stingy. Actually he could easily spending money to buy things, traveling or pay for things that makes him happy and he think necessary for his need. He care what other people think of him and want to get good comments or compliments.
[Think I ought to give more compliments? Haha!]

Outside he looks like stone and steel, but inside he is a fragile person. He will hide and cover up weak emotion and his sadness in order to maintain and keep up his "Image". One method of cover up you could easily notice is suddenly if he is quiet, cold, or act very strong or very secure. Often, he feels insecure, even he is serious about his life and his own surrounding.
[I don’t know if it indicates insecurity, but moodiness? Yes. If he goes into that mode – which I think most guys do actually – I generally try to leave him alone till he snaps out of it. I honestly have no idea how to deal with ANY guy who goes into that mode.]

This is the man who never hurry to get marry, so hardly sit back and regret about his marriage later. If he gets marry, he need to be very certain and very sure. It will take a long time for such decision, so if you tell him that you are "breaking up" , you better forget him for good because he will never coming back.
[Is this why he is just taking his time to decide if I’m the one for him? Hmm.. I’m not asking him to marry me NOW. But you know.. just give me an sign.. a hope.. that we will eventually. This can be by telling me, or even better, by starting to save up….]

He always keep his promise. If he said he will meet you in your place in 2 hours then he will be there, unless there is a serious accident or unavoidable things happen. He hate people who is late for date or any appointment.
[This is the funniest part. He’s always the one being late. But he doesn’t like waiting for others. Wait. Who does?!]

He like to think woman should be a follower and take care of family and working is a man duty. He does not like to compete with his girl friend or his wife at work because competition already exist with himself and other people. He will be very proud if he can afford and care for his family. Do not try to over power him or insult him, he can not stand it. He likes to be in control of every things, every situations.
[I would like to be in such a position but… no leh. In singapore cannot. And he also will want me to work anyway. He can’t be bothered to compete with me. He likes to be in control? I can make him FEEL like that’s the case. Heehee…]

He like a "Classy Woman" ,if she also comes from a good family then it is a Plus. It will make him feel proud and very ego about her status. Flashy type of woman , forget it. He like a perfect or a nearly perfect housewife. He tend to be possessive. He will not tell you if he is mad at you, but will act very moody to show you instead.
[I’m not classy. Just an oddball. Good family? Yep. I’m not flashy I guess. Like I said, I blend and disappear in a crowd. I’d like to be a perfect housewife like my mum. All I need to learn is how to cook.]

He like to hear sweet word and compliment so you can get his interest that way. If he approaches you to ask you out, do not act too stubborn or fooling around too much. He will get tired and just disappear. He has to feel confident when he is around you, so knowing this fact you should know what to do, right!
[I do not like acting hard-to-get. If I want to go out with you, I will. If I cannot, I’ll just say no. Eh. How to make him feel confident around me??? Why no specify one?! Haha!]

If you want him, you have to make him feel like he is the most important person for you. He likes a kind hearted woman , polite and can get along with his family. When he feels sad, do not leave him alone, but be very supportive. Kind words and your smile will win him over, so this strong man will be like a chicken in your palm.
[A chicken in my palm. That is one very new expression to me. Haha!!! Doesn’t sound right, but it sounds like something I won’t mind.]


Has this post tired you out yet? muahahaha!!!

Dearie's birthday just passed. Gave him a photoframe with our photo inside. The photoframe was so cheapo so I used my remaining "crystals" to glam it up. Heehee! So proud of myself. Getting pro at doing those.

But obviously that wasn't the real gift. What kind of lousy present would that be?! Gave him $300 with a condition that it can only be used for a motorcycle jacket, a pair of gloves and/or a good helmet. It's not a lot to work with but it'll have to do. I'm already not expecting anything from him on my upcoming day. And the same expectations were for the last v-day and christmas too.

Time is flying by....

Our 5th yr together: 21st April
My 25th birthday: 4 May
My 5th yr in this job: 6 May
My exam leave: 10 May - 6 June
My 1st exam paper: 15 May
My final paper: 6 June

Happy first half. Terrible second half.

I am so so so screwed.